Evolution of Intimacy Couples Workshop for Intimacy and Connection designed for All Levels Questers
Quest Coached by Ella Shannon
Most couples don’t struggle because they don’t love each other.
They struggle because they don’t know *how to stay connected* once life, stress, hurt feelings and miscommunication creep in.
Conversations turn into defensiveness.
Physical intimacy fades or becomes pressured.
You start feeling like housemates… or worse — adversaries.
This workshop is designed to gently guide you back toward each other.
Guided by Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Counsellor & EMDR and IFS Therapist Ella Shannon.
This 12-lesson course helps you understand 'why' the same arguments keep happening, 'why' closeness feels hard at times, and 'how' to rebuild emotional and physical intimacy in a way that feels natural — not forced.
This is not therapy, and it’s not about blaming either partner.
It’s about learning skills most couples were never taught.
In this course you will learn to:
- Communicate without escalation, shutdown or walking on eggshells
- Understand your relationship patterns and attachment triggers
- Feel emotionally safe with each other again
- Express appreciation in ways your partner actually receives
- Rebuild trust and the sense that you truly have each other’s back
- Rekindle playfulness, affection and sensual connection — without pressure
- Create deeper heart-based connection, not just problem-solving
You’ll also gain practical tools you can use immediately during difficult moments — not just theory.
Whether you feel generally “good but disconnected,” stuck in repeating arguments, or you simply want to invest in your relationship before problems grow, this course meets you where you are.
What makes this different
This workshop integrates relationship science, attachment theory and trauma-informed practice, making it safe even for couples who:
- avoid conflict
- feel emotionally distant
- have mismatched desire
- struggle to talk about intimacy
You can move through the lessons privately, at your own pace, in the comfort of your home.
If you want a relationship that feels like a team, a safe place, and a source of energy rather than stress — this is your next step.
Join the Evolution of Intimacy
The course includes written content, short video explanations by Ella, then fun exercises to follow along with, demonstrated or guided by other real couples.
LGBTIQ+ Friendly - the course was initially filmed in 2020, there are some references to 'masculine and feminine' energies - explained as being present within every person and not related to gender identiy. 'Masculine / Feminine Energy' is not language that Ella would use today, however it remains inclusive for all genders and all types of couples, sexualities, bodies and identities.
Take the next step and join us on this exciting journey into Evolution of Intimacy Couples Workshop for Intimacy and Connection.